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Farid Baig's avatar

My two cents: some men did the work, reflected, and healed—only to be broken again by someone who hadn't done theirs. Eventually, you just run out of healing potions. :)

That doesn't justify passing the trauma along. But as someone who did all the work only to be undone by someone who hadn't, I’ve reached a point where I’m simply no longer willing to risk another heartbreak. This isn't about men or women; it's about people refusing to fix themselves before involving someone else and continuing a toxic cycle.

Tiera Nicole's avatar

I agree but THIS post was specific to the men who lack simply because THIS blog talks about the single mother’s experience. I’ve written posts about women’s healing as well….

Aaliyah Burgess's avatar

Let’s really talk about it!