All of this! I survived coparenting with my oldest. I had to release alot of anger to deal with the younger one dad. But we are in a much better place. He gets more grace than deserved, but hey, God KEEPS giving me grace so it's only right to pay it forward. 🥰
EXACTLY! None of us are above fault but as you said, God continues to love us regardless. This isn’t to say you allow anyone to use and abuse you but you also have to just accept people for exactly who they are.
It's so much easier to move when you see a person's true colors. The real work is applying it and not seeing through stained glasses waiting on a change. Move accordingly in each moment. Every time may be different.
All of this! I survived coparenting with my oldest. I had to release alot of anger to deal with the younger one dad. But we are in a much better place. He gets more grace than deserved, but hey, God KEEPS giving me grace so it's only right to pay it forward. 🥰
EXACTLY! None of us are above fault but as you said, God continues to love us regardless. This isn’t to say you allow anyone to use and abuse you but you also have to just accept people for exactly who they are.
It's so much easier to move when you see a person's true colors. The real work is applying it and not seeing through stained glasses waiting on a change. Move accordingly in each moment. Every time may be different.
great post ! i got a chapter about co-parenting in my book.