Period.
That FUPA? Those stretch marks? That lil’ extra love on the hips? Still a summer body, baby. You don’t need to lose 10 pounds, tone up, or “fix” anything before you hit the beach or the pool. What you do need? A swimsuit that makes you feel sexy, confident, and fully YOU.
Whether you’re chasing toddlers at the splash pad or sipping something fruity while your mama watches the kids, there’s a swimsuit out there made to hug all the right places and let your beauty shine.
Here’s how to choose the right one for YOUR body, not Instagram’s expectations:
🌟 1. Know Your Body, Love Your Body
We aren’t going to focus so much on the “flaws”, because they’re all relative anyway, right? Instead, we want to play up what features work in your favor.
Are you curvy up top? Got hips for days? More athletic build? Soft and plush all around? Learn your shape and own it. Knowing your body type helps you pick styles that accentuate the features you want and camouflage the ones you don’t.
👙 2. For My Thick-Thigh’d Queens:
High-cut one-pieces or side-tie bikinis can give your legs room to breathe and your thighs the spotlight they deserve. By giving the illusion of an elongated leg, you minimize the “fullness” look of your thighs. And for all my short boo thangs out there, it can make you look a little taller too!
**Cheat code unlocked**
💃🏽 3. Tummy Love, Not Tummy Tuck
Got a lil’ pooch? Chile, who doesn’t! Try ruched one-pieces or tankinis with layered fabric. The draping and ruching flatters not just the tummy area but all around. Also, Bodycon one-pieces are equal opportunity cinchers honey!! Talk about instant waist snatcher!
Bonus: If you’re going to wear prints, keep the busiest part away from your mid-section as to not draw the eye there. And PLEASE FOR THE LOVE OF ALL THINGS FASHION—STAY AWAY FROM STRIPES CHILE!!
🍑 4. Giving BBL Without the Surgery
If you want to play up your curves, look for suits with belted waists or wrap styles that cinch and define. Again, cinching the waist will always be the quickest way to allow your other features to stand out in a good way.
Don’t get it twisted, high-waist bikini bottoms are still that girl—they smooth, lift, and serve body-ody-ody. And if you REALLY feeling cheeky, Brazilian cut bottoms will give even the itty-bitty booty committee a boost in booty confidence.
🌞 5. Small Chest? Big Energy.
Smaller bust? Try ruffled tops, bold patterns, or halter styles with padding. The goal isn’t necessarily to make you look “bigger”, it’s to accentuate what you already have. Plus let’s face it, the options tend to be endless the smaller your boobs are so go AWF honey!
🧜🏾♀️ 6. Big Bust, Don’t Trust That Triangle
PUT THAT STRING DOWN! Sis, if you’re carrying a little extra upstairs, look for suits with underwire, adjustable straps, and full coverage cups. Support is sexy. Spillage isn’t. Plus, your back will thank you.
🧡 7. One-Pieces Are NOT Grandma’s Swimsuits
Today’s one-pieces are doing the most, in an amazing way… Think deep V’s, cut-outs, backless styles, bold prints, the options are endless. They’re sexy, modern, and super flattering. Don’t let the “modest” reputation fool you. A good one-piece can make you feel like a damn goddess walking out the water in slow motion.
🛍️ Bonus Tip: Try Before You Cry
Ordering online? Get multiple sizes and styles, try ’em on in good lighting, and move around in them. Bend, sit, reach. If it rides up or cuts into your skin, it’s a no—even if it’s cute. Comfort AND confidence go hand in hand.
Amazon and Shein have some really great swimsuit options for all body types and their return turn over times are reasonable.
💬 Let’s Talk About It
So check this out. You’ve birthed babies, worked long hours, and held it all together when everything felt like it was falling apart.
Don’t let these store bought bodies keep you from appreciating yours!
So this summer?
Don’t you dare sit on the sidelines with that oversized T-shirt on because you’re worried about what someone’s dusty son might think. Show up. Show out. Show skin if you want to. You don’t owe anyone a flat stomach or an explanation.
And. Don’t.
So let me know in the comments: What’s your go-to swimsuit style? Are you rocking a one-piece, a high-waisted two-piece, or something bold and backless? Drop your faves below!
Great post! Thanks for the tips. The one for us with bigger chests really hit home: support is sexy, spillage isn’t. 😭😂🥹🤦♀️😆